- The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them. Ernest Hemingway
Staying single is not as appealing as it looks. At some point in your life you may feel the need to be loved and taken care of. You would wish there was someone to share your sad and happy moments, someone to share your success and failure, someone to do things along with you, someone to accompany you on vacations, just someone who shares life with you! Marriage allows you to have this someone who will share your feelings and experiences. When you have someone to share everything with, then you get to know what is more important for you and your relationship. This will help you to realize your dreams and make them come true.
Better and Safer Sex Life
Marriage means better and safer sex. Married sex is more sophisticated and healthy than single sex. The things people say about sex life becoming monotonous and predictable after marriage are just misconceptions. Most couples who have been married for so long admitted that sex life keeps on getting better. After years of being married, it will become easier to open up to your spouse about your fantasies and desires and get what you want without any fear of being judged. Sexual experimentation is what keeps married sex spiced up for years.
Good for Mental Health
People who are single feel more burdened by life’s hardships whereas married people have a partner to support and comfort them thus making them worry less about such obstacles in life and improve their emotional health. Married people are less distraught and less psychologically perturbed than single, divorced, cohabiting or widowed people. When people marry, their mental health improves in a steady and considerable manner. But divorce leads to decline in mental health and self esteem leading to depression and estrangement. A failed marriage doesn’t serve as a reason to avoid them altogether. Instead you should refrain from getting into bad relationships and marry the person whom you truly love. A happy marriage reduces the stress levels, the reason being the positive influence of your partner on your life style contributing to better health.
You will feel the need to have kids in your life in order to make it meaningful. Life is definitely meaningless without family and marriage is the foundation for a family. Marriage allows you to fulfill this desire of having kids besides helping you to continue your bloodline. Being a parent is an aspect of adulthood that every person wants to experience and marriage gives the most stable environment for that. To be a parent of a kid is an extraordinary experience that one can have in a lifetime. The cute things that kids do when they are so small give the parents’ hearts the joys that can’t be compared to anything in the world. Nothing is more sweet and beautiful than the unconditional love you will develop towards your children. And even more heart warming is the love that your kids will show towards you. To raise your children in a good and healthy atmosphere, marriage is very much necessary. Children can lead a positive and secure lifestyle if their parents stay married.
Through marriage you prove your love by giving your partner a lifelong commitment and taking the responsibility to be with them in every aspect of their life. Marriage is the highest commitment you can give the person you love. As a matter of fact, it exemplifies everlasting commitment in a relationship. Making this commitment will change your life. When you and your partner are wholly committed to making your relationship work, then the best thing to do would be to get married because marriage is the only realistic means of permanence in a relationship. In my opinion without commitment any relationship has no direction for the future. The question that pops into my mind is that if you don’t commit to your love of life by marriage, then how could you get to experience the next stage of relationship – a future together?