• The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. Mahatma Gandhi

Be a Bridesmaid




What could be deemed the best of the benefits of being a bridesmaid is the free course on what not to do on the big day. Is your bride an annoying ‘zilla? Does she really need all the table cloths, napkins and menus to match perfectly? Don’t get me started on the food.


Between the showering of gifts (read: a relaxing spa day perhaps?) and the bachelorette or "one last time" celebratory night, you have a year of partying to look forward to. Put on your best dress and heels and have a ball! Remember, if you’re still single you don’t have a curfew. Ha!


After the "I dos," you no longer have to, at least not for the bride. Unlike your blissful bride friend, you don’t have to spend the rest of your life committed to anyone else. Just be there for her for the months leading up to the wedding, then bail!


The wedding is a great excuse to get your makeup and hair done, too. Try up-do styles that you’ve never donned before. Find make-up trends in magazines, on Pinterest and YouTube. Go all out with your cute self, but don’t upstage the bride, if you can help it; it’s still her day, honey.


The wedding gives you a chance to be your single self and meet as many of your bride’s male cousins (or female cousins, hey!) as you can take. Being single does not have to be a lonely journey during your stint as a bridesmaid. Groomsmen in tuxes are quite sexy, too, by the way. I’m just sayin’!


Success stories

Chloe P

Dec 31 at 12:13 pm
I've been one three times now, parents divorced and re-married, but the last time I was a bridesmaids was my cousins wedding.

Jacqueline Webster

Dec 04 at 15:14 pm
Always wondered what it would be like...

Esme Maldonado

Nov 28 at 02:48 am
brother's wedding first time being a bridesmaid

Frankie Gatt

Nov 23 at 03:07 am
Sisters Wedding ❤️

Rhowenda Hackart

Sep 04 at 21:49 pm
My Best friends wedding... what a memorable day.

Shannon Romrell

Mar 12 at 14:59 pm
I was a bridesmaid at my sister’s wedding and it was beautiful

Vika Masetich

Sep 12 at 23:19 pm
my brother's wedding

Erin Domingo

Mar 21 at 08:39 am
JS Prom!

Katelynn Bayles

Mar 21 at 06:35 am
tay wedding :)

Shalinei Chandrasaekaran

Mar 12 at 16:10 pm
Shaanu wedding

London Leopard

Mar 12 at 08:54 am
I was a bridesmaid abroad for my aunties wedding.

Tamara Aelbrecht

Mar 11 at 11:52 am
Ones in a livetime. I have been bridesmaid and photograper for ons day at my friends wedding.

Cherie Stratton

Mar 05 at 10:47 am

Naomi Ohayon

Mar 04 at 04:13 am
was a bridesmaid for one of my best friends

Hope Violet

Feb 26 at 10:03 am
I was a child, but I was

Shannon Kokkonen

Feb 25 at 00:20 am
for my sister

Ollie Clark

Feb 24 at 18:09 pm
I was one of the bridesmaids at my uncle's wedding. Very confused about what was going on for the whole ceremony, as I had never been to a wedding before, but it was nice of them to pick me to be a bridesmaid - and I had my hair all curly too, which was fun!

Nicola Higgs

Feb 24 at 13:44 pm
was a bridesmaid for my best friend

Frances N Benjamin Taylor

Feb 24 at 10:52 am
I was a bridesmaid for my sister n law

Eleanor Fields

Feb 15 at 09:13 am
me and my friend were bridesmaids for our mum's friend.

Carmen Narvais

Feb 08 at 00:31 am
3 times

cherri massey

Feb 07 at 00:20 am
mum and dads wedding

slim shady

Jan 18 at 11:43 am
It was an amazing feeling to be brides' best maid )

Alina Masotti

Jan 18 at 05:42 am

sarah donoghue

Jan 17 at 21:28 pm
I was a bridesmaid at my uncles wedding!

Leighanne Duffy

Dec 26 at 22:21 pm
Sisters bridesmaid xx

T Mano

Dec 24 at 23:06 pm
friends wedding

Laura Dodds

Dec 24 at 19:14 pm
Bridesmaid to Dad and debs

Sharon Hudson

Dec 18 at 16:23 pm
Meagan Keele

Xiomara Martinez

Dec 18 at 16:16 pm
sister wedding

Emily McGurk

Dec 09 at 20:53 pm
Niki's wedding

Billie Andrews

Dec 06 at 23:19 pm

MacKenzie Hand

Dec 02 at 23:22 pm
For my cousins wedding, it was beautiful